One day this week I overheard one of the children say “I can hear my friend’s voice. Where is he?” I thought it was a very powerful statement from someone so young and tender. It made me think how important and meaningful friendships are to young children and to adults.
I believe friendships sweeten our lives and for children they become an important factor in developing their own identity as they so patiently build a social world of their own. Children possess an immediate desire to make friends but it takes time for them to do this and no matter how confident they are they still wish for warm relationships. Even though one of the children could not see his friend the emotional power of his voice was enough for him to feel his presence beside him.
My friend sent me text message at the weekend to say she was thinking of me because she was walking in a landscape that was familiar to me, a place where my ancestors had lived, a place I love and hold deeply in my heart. I replied by saying I was there too with her as I visualised the environment in my mind. Even though our children like adults may not be physically with their friends they still feel all is good with them, they are there for them and affirm the good things in life.
We are looking forward to implementing the new EYFS guidance with its trimmed down bureaucracy, with a view to savouring more time with the children and enjoying the companionship of everyday life rich in its possibilities, potentials and fulfilment. The Centre is a place where they feel at ease and at home and for them to be themselves.
June McHugh


































